Mean

There are a lot of different kinds of interpersonal relationships.  I pretty much have divided all those relationships into 3 groups: ones i care about, ones I really don't care about, and the ones i hate.  The ones in first category are the ones I really count on in my life. And it really hurts when the people you care about let you down.  If I come to you with a problem, now is probably not a good time to preach to me about what I "should" be doing with my life.  It would be nice if people could just listen and give appropriate advice instead of using a vulnerable moment to push your agenda.  I try to be there whenever you need me.  I would do anything you needed me to.  But a lot of times when i need you to just be there for me, you can't just shush and listen without a huge pouring forth of whatever you are thinking of me.  Whenever you do this to me, I then not only end up having to deal with whatever my problem  is, I also have deal with the horrible feeling that i am a disappointment to you.  So thanks for your help.  You would think I would have stopped expecting you to actually help me.  Stupid me.